...Violets are blue,
Here's a Valentine story
Especially for you!
February 14, 1992 fell on a Friday. I was a twenty-something single, dating a great guy named Greg. We had been friends for a long time, but had in recent weeks started spending more time together. We were taking an institute class together at the UofA, went to see some plays and concerts together (Les Mis, George Winston, to name a couple), and had a standing date each week to watch a tv show called Northern Exposure. It had taken us a while to get to this point, but that is a story for a different day. Greg was also my home teacher (he got a 100+% each month), and we had had our first kiss. Things were going great! On this Valentine's Day, I remember thinking about what to get him. Nothing too lovey or cheesy--didn't want to scare him off at this point. So, I ended up making a homemade box, covered it with heart paper, and filled it with some of his favorite candy at the time. So far so good. Earlier that week I had been having a dull ache in my abdomen that sometimes felt like it was in my lower back, but it came and went, and I didn't think too much about it......until it turned into much more than a dull ache on that very Valentine's Day! By mid-morning I was in so much pain I couldn't stand up. It hurt so bad. A little bit later it hurt so bad I was throwing up. I knew I was in too much pain to drive. Fortunately for me, I had a great home teacher who didn't have classes on Fridays! I called Greg and he drove me to the doctor. I felt so bad because he had a brand new car and I was throwing up all over the outside of it on the way! When we got to the doctor's office, they saw how sick I was and admitted me to the hospital right then and there. They did not know at the time what was wrong, but performed an "exploratory" surgery to see if they could find out.
Now it's Valentine's night and I am recovering from surgery in the hospital. Greg called my parents to let them know what was going on. I was in a hospital in AZ. They were in TX. My mom had just had surgery herself and had to get permission from her doctor to travel out west to help me. My dad made her a bed in their car, and started the journey to AZ, though it would be a couple of days before they would arrive. Meanwhile, Greg stayed with me the entire weekend so I would not be alone. He slept in a chair in my hospital room. Occasionally, he would excuse himself from the room when the nurse came in to give me a shot of demorall on my back side. He was quite the gentleman!
Finally, on Sunday evening around 10:00 pm, Greg told me he had to go home. He had classes Mon. morning. I remember watching him walk out the door. The minute it closed, I started crying and crying and couldn't stop. A couple of minutes later, my bishop of my ward came in and was of course concerned because I was sobbing. All I could say was.... I...wwwwant.....GGGGReg... to come bbbbbaaaaack!!!!!!
Cupid had struck on that Valentine's weekend. The diagnosis was officially acute appendicitis. I was in the hospital 6 days, and didn't really start to feel better until my mom arrived. She made sure I ate all my food, got up and walked around, and followed all the doctors orders. Greg of course scored major points with me AND my parents for helping me and staying with me all weekend. It was a turning point for me in our dating relationship. And the rest, as they say, is history--Greg has been my Valentine for 17 years!
Happy Valentine's Day!